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This month, my daughter was recognized as the Wisconsin middle school representative for the Prudential Spirit of Community Award. She was chosen from thousands of middle school students who serve in their communities, for her work with Bookworm Wednesday, and her efforts to help others start neighborhood book clubs in their own communities.

This photo shows my seventh-grader speaking in the keynote for the American Camp Association-Texoma, a positive, youth-centered organization in Texas. I hope she has more opportunities to speak to youth and professionals like these.

In May, Prudential is flying both of us to Washington DC, where she will receive her award, and spend four days with other Prudential Spirit of Community honorees from throughout the country.

I’m so happy these youth efforts are rewarded. We need more of this in our world today.

We had two free tickets and were in for a chilly low-60’s day, so we decided to hop on the Key West Express from Marco Island.

Had it been a warmer day, we could have spent more time outside, which would have been more enjoyable. My husband and son did spend some time watching the considerable waves hit our boat, and the sun was nice on the way South, even though it was too cold for the jackets we were wearing.

The kids played a bit of backgammon and we were seated at a table where we could watch TV the whole way back to Marco Island.

We didn’t have time to do much more than wander around on Duval Street, enjoy a nice Cuban meal, get some Key Lime Pie, and of course, take the obligatory photo next to the Southernmost tip of the United States.

Unfortunately, probably because of the cold front, the three-hour ride each way was very rough on the day we chose, and many were getting sick on the outside decks. I think Key West is a lovely place to visit, but it would take a few days to truly experience all it has to offer.

Key West Tips:
1. If you take the Key West Express, talk to someone who understands boat navigation, to find out what kind of water conditions are expected. The crew took good care of everyone, but it was very rough water and a generally miserable trip.

2. Arrive early so you can select your seat. We had a full boat and arrived at 8 AM, and were not able to sit next to each other on the way to Key West. For the return trip we arrived early and got desireable seats in the indoor upper deck, facing forward toward the TV.

3. Bring supplies for seasickness. The crew takes good care of the passengers, but Dramamine, baby wipes and small plastic garbage bags would have been very helpful to some people on our trip.

4. Consider staying a couple of days. There is snorkeling, boat cruises and a National Park – all of which required more than the few hours we were allowed during our single-day roundtrip.

5. Rent a car. I heard the drive from Miami to Key West is worth the trip and the extra time to get there. It’s also possible to boat one way and rent a car for the return trip.

Marco Island Series:
Marco Island Views
Kids as Cooks
Kids as Cooks Part II
Shelling 101
Key West Express

Florida Series:
Disney World
Sanibel Island
Fort Myers
Everglades

Affordable Family Travel Series:

Creativity and Flexibility
Renting Condos and Timeshares

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Marco Island, Florida, isn’t well-known for shelling, but we must have come just at the right time this winter. We arrived just after a storm and found plentiful shells along the beach each day, especially toward the south end of the island, near the rocks.

We walked each day on the beach and always brought a grocery bag along, in case we discovered a “must-keep” shell.

We found literally hundreds of the Fighting Conch one day, as apparently there is a nesting bed beyond the rocks off the coast. These were mostly live, though, so we spent quite a while throwing them back into the Gulf.

Craig’s favorite passtime during the trip was identifying the shells and choosing which he’d keep.

He sorted the shells into categories: sharks eye, banded tulips, augers, conch, even sand dollars.

And the bleach-water mix helped remove the stench. He even found a small horseshoe crab shell, removed the soft tissue and bleached it as well.

These will be excellent trades at Collector’s Corner this winter!

Marco Island Series:
Marco Island Views
Kids as Cooks
Kids as Cooks Part II
Shelling 101
Key West Express

Florida Series:
Disney World
Sanibel Island
Fort Myers
Everglades

Affordable Family Travel Series:

Creativity and Flexibility
Renting Condos and Timeshares